Things I Can Help You With
You're at the point where you can't keep going in the same pattern, because it's destroying you from the inside, and you want things to change permanently.
You say yes when every part of you is screaming no, because disappointing someone still feels more dangerous than abandoning yourself.
Too much attention makes you want to run, and no attention makes you spiral, and you can't find the middle where you'd actually feel calm.
You've done things in bed, and out of it, that you didn't actually want, because saying no out loud felt harder than just going along.
Your whole mood can shift because they took an hour to text back, and you hate giving them that much power.
You're single, and some part of you is already bracing for the next person to pull the same thing out of you, because it always seems to happen again.
You're exhausted from being the strong one, the easy one, the understanding one, and you can't remember the last time you put yourself first.
You're in the right place.
Ways of Working With Me
Online · One-Off Session
Emergency Emotional Support
For when life happens and you need someone to hold space right now. A higher-priority, one-off session when you can't wait for next week.
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Online · 3+ Months
Longer Coaching Packages
Ongoing monthly coaching, raw feedback, real transformation, and unapologetic expression, for women ready to commit to lasting change over three months or more.
Request a Discovery CallIn-Person · Bali & Beyond
Workshops, Events & Retreats
My workshops range all the way from authentic relating, spicy sharing circles, tantra retreats to lap dance immersions. I focus on connection to self and to others, in sensual, conscious and respectful spaces. I love collabs as I am a highly social person.
Premium · Private Intensive
In-Person Session
Book me for a private multi-day intensive. Emotional support, tantra, somatic coaching, transformative rituals. For individuals, couples, or groups.
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Why Work With Me
I am not afraid to go with you in the darkness.
I'm here to help you break the cycle of whichever pattern is keeping you stuck in relationships or in sexuality. Together, we do the detective work: understand your recurring habits, lay them out in clear light, and let them go.
My clients are generally intelligent, driven, successful people in their professional lives, who haven't yet taken the time to invest in the relationship side, and are now hitting a pain point they can't ignore anymore.
I started my coaching journey with the VITA program by focusing on women's work, as I was immersed in the feminine world of pole dance as a studio owner. But very quickly, my work diversified to include couples work and men, for which I took additional majors. Sexuality and sensuality became an inherent part of my work, as the demand for intimacy help increased. But I discovered that sexuality is usually a portal, and the real pain points were always underneath it: the self-abandonment, the boundaries that get crossed and re-crossed, the people-pleasing mistaken for love. That's where my focus lives now, breaking those patterns for good.
My approach is known to be raw and direct, but also kind and humorous. I believe it is essential to bring a note of pleasure into the sessions. We start with creating a space where all of you is welcome, we build a toolkit you can reach for the moment you're in crisis, and we develop new patterns strong enough that you never have to go back through the same suffering.
Amanda's Mission
1+
couples and individuals helped through coaching
VITA Certified under Layla Martin, with a specialization in male sexuality and relationship dynamics. ISTA practitioner training in hands-on bodywork. Samma Karuna Tantra teacher training. Bachelor in Social Work from the Geneva School of Social Work.
The Unhealthy Pattern Checklist
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It's with so much gratitude and enthusiasm that I'm writing these few words to thank you. I realized how completely disconnected I was from my femininity, and how, through different tools, you managed to reconnect me to it. I was able to break patterns, unlearn beliefs, rebuild my self-confidence, and bring out a femininity I'd been hiding for years. You managed to peel back all those layers, and reveal me to myself.
I feel very grateful for the coaching sessions I had with you. You have such a great capacity to help me go deep inside of myself and connect with the root of what I was truly feeling. I had huge insights that helped me understand myself and my emotions clearly. I also had one of the most profound healing and somatic experiences, related to old wounds that were unconscious for me but stuck in my body, and I was able to bring light into them and release them. Thank you for holding space that is so safe, honest, and caring.
Being encouraged to get rid of my inner shyness, to try to be truly myself. If you are looking for an excellent listener, a fantastic analyst, and someone who helps you find your joy and your desires, have a session with this wonderful queen. Working with Amanda has helped me in no small way to be a better human, a more joyful human.
Amadragona is someone I've turned to during some of the roughest times in my life, a true friend who supports in the most powerful way. She's one of those rare people who won't let you hide behind your own stories or excuses. Instead, she meets you with love, honesty, and deeply constructive, often challenging feedback, the kind that truly helps you grow. Time and time again, she's helped me not just get through difficult moments, but thrive because of them.
Working with Amanda has been such a profound and magical experience. She guided me through powerful journeys of meeting my higher self, exploring past and future selves, and healing ancestral lineages. Through her embodiment coaching, I discovered new energetic gifts and deepened my spiritual practice. Amanda's energy work and visualisations offered deep healing and protection, especially as I navigated a challenging time, helping me to feel truly connected to my higher self. The practices she shared continue to support me long after our sessions together. I'm so grateful for the wisdom, presence, and heart Amanda brings to her work, her guidance has been truly transformative.
Working with Amanda has been a real gift. Being able to find a safe space where to work on my sexual energy, my needs and desires has been a blessing. Amanda has helped me to visualize what I want out of my sex life, to communicate my needs with my partner, and to utilize my sexual energy and channel it to serve my life.
Each week I look forward with great anticipation to our session, in which Amanda is so generous with time and patience. I feel incredibly supported and held in our holy work together. How did I get this lucky, to have a teacher like her?
My sessions with Amanda created a chance for an honest and compassionate reflection and proved to be a stepping stone for a profound transformational process. Amanda is as knowledgeable and experienced as she is attentive and caring, and all our sessions felt both professional and enjoyable at the same time. I learned new things about myself, my body and my sexuality, and received new tools and techniques to continue this journey independently. After finishing my work with Amanda I feel more connected to myself, my body, my sexuality, and my masculinity.
I wanted to share something beautiful. Hearing how deeply your reflections impacted us filled me with so much gratitude, amazement, and love for you. Thank you for helping us deepen our relationship and come closer in union, it means so much to me. You truly are an incredible woman. Behind all the embodied wisdom you carry lies the experience, courage, and responsibility it took to become who you are today. You deserve all the love of the cosmos and everything this Earth has to offer.
We met Amanda at a birthday party. After a few days of thinking it over, we jumped into this adventure, which lasted five months at a pace of one session a week. We lived through sessions rich in emotion, immersed in somatic practices, rituals, deep meditations. We felt Amanda's support, who accompanied us without judgment, with her love and her care. The bond within our couple grew step by step, thanks to the explorations she offered around welcoming and understanding one another.
Amanda, we just wanted to say how much we've loved working with you. You've helped us find our rhythm again, with more laughter, connection, and calm. We feel lighter, closer, and more like a team. Thank you for guiding us with so much wisdom, warmth and care.
Amanda has had a beautiful impact on my transformational journey with women, relationships, inner-child work, masculinity, and really just all parts of life! She's really helped me come to terms with some deeper aspects of myself that I didn't know about. Truly grateful for her coaching and the real life impact it has made for me.
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